Is it bad if my dog licks me a lot

Why Does My Dog Lick Me?

Whats better than coming home to a kiss from a happy dog? Most dog owners interpret the reason why dogs lick their owners as a sign of affection. But is this really why your dog is licking you? And what can you do if your dogs licking behavior is out of control?

Is Licking a Dogs Way of Kissing?

The jury is out on what a dogs licking actually means. Believe it or not, what people interpret as affection might, in fact, be your dog encouraging you to throw up what you ate for lunch for them.

Researchers of wild canids wolves, coyotes, foxes, and other wild dogs report that puppies lick the face and muzzle of their mother when she returns from a hunt to her den in order to get her to regurgitate for them, notes Dr. Alexandra Horowitz, head of the Horowitz Dog Cognition Lab at Barnard College, Columbia University.

Similarly, your dog could simply think that you taste nice. Certified applied animal behaviorist Dr. Mary Burch points out that humans have slightly salty skin, especially after sweating during exercise. Therefore, those licks might be more about seeking salt than giving affection. Horowitz adds that if your dog likes to lick your face, it will often happen after youve finished a delicious meal.

But, there is also evidence that licking is sometimes a sign of affection. Horowitz points out that, although it started as a food-seeking behavior, licking has now become a ritualized greeting for many dogs. Some wild species in the dog family will lick pack members just to welcome them home. So, those daily slobbers really might just be a sign that your dog is happy to see you.

Licking can be a sign of affection, explains Burch. It might also give a dog a feeling of security and comfort, just as the dog had when licked by its mother in the litter.

When Does a Dogs Licking Become a Problem?

Most licking is harmless, even welcome as a form of self-expression on the dogs part. Burch notes that theres no need to worry that its a form of domination in fact, its quite the opposite.

One theory is the licking is a sign of submission, she says. The idea is that dogs who are submissive will lick a more dominant member of the pack.

Even so, there are some scenarios when you might want to head off a slobber-fest from your pup. The first relates to human comfort, that is, some people simply dont like being licked by a dog. If you have a friend who dislikes being licked by dogs, its kinder to dog and friend alike to redirect the behavior.

But sometimes licking is a symptom of a more serious problem. If your dog is licking themselves, you, or objects excessively, to the point that it seems like a self-stimulatory behavior, this might be a sign of anxiety, boredom, or pain. Obsessive self-licking can also be a sign of allergies or other health problems.

What Can Dog Owners Do About Problem Licking?

If your dog is self-licking excessively, start by having your veterinarian check them out and address any medical problems or discomfort. Once youve ruled out medical explanations, you can turn to behavioral solutions.

One idea is to redirect your dog, says Burch. When they lick, switch up the activity. A good option is to choose a behavior that is incompatible with licking, such as using an interactive puzzle to get a treat. You can also have the dog engage in other behaviors such as ball play or trick training.

By repeating this redirect, youll gradually reinforce the lesson that you dont want your dog to lick, without ever using negative reinforcement.

Lick mats are specifically designed to tap into a dogs enjoyment of licking in a positive (and non-destructive or irritating) way. Smear some dog-safe peanut butter or plain yogurt on a lick mator even serve your dog their meals on a soothing lick matto help satisfy their urge to lick.

Trick training, in particular, is a good way to turn a repeated undesirable behavior into an opportunity for positive reinforcement. Start by simply having the dog sit, which might stop the licking on its own, then reward the behavior with a treat.

Next, why not harness your dogs affection by teaching them to give you a hug? Or to speak on cue? Other tricks to practice could include sitting up, army crawling, or leg weaving. If you and your dog find you really enjoy trick training, you could even look into AKC Trick Dog trials. If your dogs excessive licking behavior was caused by boredom, getting involved in practicing for Tricks titles will do the, well, trick!

Whether or not you dive into trick training, always make sure that your affectionate, lick-happy dog gets plenty of attention and exercise. Excess energy can lead to over-licking or other, more destructive behaviors.

Need some help training your dog? While you may not be able to attend in-person training classes during COVID-19, we are here to help you virtually through AKC GoodDog! Helpline. This live telephone service connects you with a professional trainer who will offer unlimited, individualized advice on everything from behavioral issues to CGC prep to getting started in dog sports.

Why does my dog lick me so much?

If your dog licks you a lot then youll know what its like to be slobbered on the face, hands and around the mouth, whether youre stroking them, feeding them or being greeted as you step through the door. Being licked by your dog can be a sign of affection, but it can have a number of other meanings too. So why do dogs lick and what can you do if it ever becomes a problem?

Why does my dog lick me so much?

Licking is a natural and instinctive behaviour to dogs. For them its a way of grooming, bonding, and expressing themselves. Your dog may lick you to say they love you, to get your attention, to help soothe themselves if theyre stressed, to show empathy or because you taste good to them! Excessive licking can sometimes be a sign that your dog is anxious, uncomfortable or in pain. If youre concerned about your dog always

speak to a vet or behaviourist for advice

.

Dogs have an instinct to lick

Licking is an important part of being a dog. Its how they groom, show emotion and communicate. Mothers will often lick their puppies to keep them clean, give them comfort and encourage them to go to the toilet. Puppies will groom themselves and their family and, aside from being a good way to clean, it's also a sign of love, affection and a great way to bond.

Why do dogs lick?

When you say hello to a dog whats the first thing you do? Chances are you stroke them. Our need to use our hands and touch their fur comes naturally to us and is a form of grooming. Dogs groom with their tongues, and so licking is their way of greeting, bonding and showing affection. We explore the world with our hands, while dogs use their mouths and tongues to help them understand their environment, and to assess the mood of others. Whether thats licking your face to greet you and assess your mood, carrying things between their teeth, or playing with toys or balls.

Theyre showing affection

Dogs often show affection by licking. Its an instinctive behaviour thats linked to the comfort they felt when their mother licked them as a puppy. Licking plays an important part of how they bond with others, causing them to release dopamine and endorphins that help make them feel relaxed, calm and happy. Just as it feels nice for us to stroke a dog, it probably feels nice for dogs to lick the ones they love.

Theyre showing empathy

For dogs, licking is a comforting behaviour. If your dog is concerned about you, they may try and lick you to make you feel better and care for you.In a 2012 study, researchers asked owners to pretend to cry and found that their dogs were more likely to lick and nuzzle them than when their owners were just humming or talking. Its possible that these dogs were just displaying a learnt behaviour, but many of us would argue that dogs can, to some extent at least, share and understand our feelings.

To get attention

Licking is a great way of getting your attention. If your dog licks you, you probably stroke them, talk to them kindly, pet them or make a fuss over them. This, in turn, encourages them to lick you and makes them more likely to do it next time.

We taste good

Have you ever noticed that your dog licks you more after exercise? Particularly on bare areas that have been really sweaty? When we sweat we release salt and acidic chemicals that may taste delicious to our dogs. Your dog may also lick your face and hands, smelling minuscule remnants of something youve eaten or nice smelling moisturising creams or lotions. Certain medications and lotions, such as psoriasis creams, can be very poisonous to dogs, so never let your dog lick you after youve used these.

How good is a dogs sense of taste?

A dogs sense of smell is renowned for being exceptional, but how does their sense of taste compare to ours? Surprisingly, we have 5 times more taste buds than a dog, so at first glance it seems like our sense of taste is better. Like us, dogs can taste things that are sweet, sour, salty and bitter, but theyre unable to taste a type of savoury flavour that we can detect, known as umami. Although dogs are unable to taste umami, they can taste water, something were not capable of. When we eat, our sense of smell is responsible for around 80% of what we taste, so its likely that a dogs sensational sense of smell makes up for their lack of taste buds.

Theyre hungry

In the wild, young dogs may lick their mothers lips when they return from a hunt to show that theyre hungry. This instinct is hardwired into your dogs behaviour and they may lick you to let you know

theyre feeling peckish

.

When is licking a problem?

Licking is a way for dogs to express themselves and is a natural part of being a dog. Some dogs may lick lots, while others may do it less, but if your dog suddenly starts licking you a lot then it could be a sign that something is going on. Dogs may lick more frequently if they have increased anxiety or a health issue, such as an allergy, injury or arthritis. If youre concerned about your dog or their behaviour then always

contact your vet or a behaviourist

.

Theyre anxious

For dogs, licking can be a soothing behaviour that helps them feel calm, relaxed and more at ease. If theyre feeling worried or stressed, particularly if they have separation anxiety, then licking you, or themselves, might help them feel less anxious.

OCD

Although rare, some dogs can develop a type of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). This can be linked to long-term stress or anxiety and can manifest as them constantly licking themselves, objects or other people. This can lead to sores on their tongues or bald patches in their fur. If you think your dog might be affected then they may be able to stop this behaviour if you interrupt them with an invitation to do something else for example go for a walk, play in the garden or do some training. The behaviour should always be treated with kindness. It may be difficult to stop your dog, so alwaysspeak to your vet or a behaviouristif youre concerned about your dogs health or behaviour.

What can I do about problem licking?

Remember that licking is a perfectly natural behaviour and is a useful way for dogs to express themselves. Expecting your dog to stop licking you completely is similar to someone expecting you to never stroke your dog again its never going to happen. However, not all dogs are the same and some may not lick often if at all. If you have a licker its important that you try to understand why your dog is licking you, as this may help you to help your dog to stop. If your dogs licking becomes too much, then below are some suggestions to help you:

Move away

Instead of giving either positive or negative attention, try moving the part of your body thats being licked away from your dog. Dont say anything or make eye contact, but remain neutral. If this doesnt work, try moving away from your dog, or leave the room entirely. Over time this should give them the message that its not something you enjoy.

Distract them

Try giving them something else to do that stops them licking, such as a chew toy or a food puzzle.

Training

Try training them to sit, or teach them to do something that redirects their licking and is rewarded by your affection and attention, such as giving you their paw or rolling over.

Exercise

Keep your dog stimulated and give them plenty of exercise to help reduce any stress or burn up any excess energy that might be directed towards licking you

Stay clean

If licking is a particular problem after youve been exercising, take a shower.

Positive attention

Give your dog lots of praise and attention when theyre doing what you want them to, rather than giving them negative attention when theyre not.

Be consistent

Make sure youre consistent. If you give your dog mixed messages then it will be confusing to them. Be consistent and clear about what you want them to do and what you dont.

Should I let my dog lick my face?

Whether you should let your dog lick your face or not is an entirely personal decision, but be aware that your dogs mouth is full of natural bacteria and their saliva may contain parasites. The chances of you becoming unwell from being licked on the face are probably very small, but youve seen your dog licking or eating things you wouldnt normally, which begs the question, what are they putting in their mouths that you havent seen? If you do let your dog lick your face, make sure you wash it with soap and water afterwards to minimise any unpleasant contamination.

Why does my dog lick me in the morning?

Your dog may give you morning licks as a way of greeting you after youve both had a sleep. It could be that theyre happy to see you again after dreams of chasing rabbits, or because in the night we secrete sweat and oils in our sleep and may taste delicious to them.

Why does my dog lick me more than anyone else?

If your dog licks you more than anyone else then it probably means that youre the person they love the most. You give the best strokes, the best tickles behind the ear, youre their best friend and the giver of all tasty foods. Alternatively, and rather worryingly, it might be because you taste the best. Either way, take it as a compliment!

Why does my dog lick me when I stroke them?

When you stroke your dog, youre telling them that you love and care for them. When they lick you back its just their way of letting you know that the feeling is mutual.

Why does my dog lick me after Ive eaten?

A dogs sense of smell is said to be between 10,000 and 100,000 times better than ours. Regardless of how tidy an eater you are, particles of food will remain around your lips, face and hands after youve finished a meal. Your dog will probably still be able to pick up on the smell of whatever youve eaten and, to them, it still smells delicious.

Why does my dog lick themselves so much?

If your dog has suddenly started licking themselves a lot then you should

talk to your vet

and get them checked out. Obsessive licking can be a sign that they are stressed or anxious, or could suggest that they are in pain, feeling nauseous, uncomfortable or itchy. Licking is soothing to dogs and may help to make them feel better. Dogs can sometimes lick themselves so much that they damage their skin. They may also lick or chew an area that is a little distance from the site of irritation, for example, dogs with anal sac issues may lick at their front legs or on its back because its as close as they can comfortably get.

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