Why does my dog lick me
Is your dog licking you excessively? Vet reveals 5 reasons why and how to stop them
As a pup parent, you might want to learn how to stop your dog licking you (especially if they do it excessively). Whilst some of us love this gesture of affection, not everyone appreciates a slobbery kiss from their pooch.
There are lots of reasons why your dog might lick you and its not always to do with affection (we were surprised too!) It could also mean that your dog is feeling stressed or is requesting the best dog food from you.
If youre curious as to why your dog keeps licking you (or other things around your home), then Dr. Joanna Woodnutt, an expert vet, has the answers for you. Shes also suggested three ways to stop them from doing it so much.
Why your dog keeps licking you
1. You taste good!
Your dog might be licking you because you taste great! Whether youve been chopping food and your hands are covered in microscopic food particles, or whether you just put on that coconut body lotion, its possible your dog is licking you because your skin tastes delicious.
It might even be your natural body oils and sweat that your dog enjoys so much that salty flavour is a canine favourite!
Be aware that some ingredients in body lotion may be toxic to dogs, so they should be discouraged from licking you after applying moisturiser.
2. Stress, boredom, anxiety
Unfortunately, our dogs are prone to stress, and this can sometimes manifest in obsessive behaviors. Repetitive licking of people, objects, and themselves can be a sign of stress, dog boredom, or anxiety in our canine friends. You might notice your dog only licks you when theyre anxious (for instance, during a thunderstorm or firework show), or it may be that your dog licks anytime youre near them.
Licking is naturally comforting for dogs its a grooming behavior they undertake when calm and relaxed. In fact, it could even be seen as the canine equivalent of taking a deep breath in and out to calm down.
For these cases, providing more entertainment is useful, as it can resolve boredom and reduce stress. The best dog puzzle toys are useful for dogs suffering from boredom, anxiety, and stress. They also allow dogs to redirect the repetitive licking behavior onto an appropriate toy. Lickimats and stuffed toys are great. Playing games with your dog can also relieve boredom, as can adding in some new training regimes.
If your dogs anxiety is severe, you are likely to see other symptoms at this point its worth discussing with your vet.
3. Canine dementia
In canine dementia (properly called canine cognitive dysfunction or CCD), your dog can gain new repetitive behaviors, including licking you. If your dog is elderly and seems to be licking your foot or hand more than they used to, its possible canine cognitive dysfunction is to blame.
Other symptoms of CCD include changes in sleep-wake pattern, forgetfulness, toileting accidents, and anxiety. Luckily, treatment can resolve many of these symptoms, including licking!
4. You've accidentally trained them to do it!
Dogs are fast learners, and theyll take just about anything as a reward. So, its possible youve actually trained your dog to lick you by inadvertently rewarding his behaviour. For instance when your dog licks you, you move his head away and absentmindedly stroke him thats positive reinforcement. Theyll quickly learn that licking you gets a stroke!
Even telling him off can work as reinforcement for many dogs, all attention is good attention, even if youre asking them to stop. If your dog licking you gets you to give them attention, then theyll carry on doing it.
So how can you stop it? Try to ignore your dog completely if they start licking, and silently move away. Your dog will soon realize that licking causes you to ignore him and leave the room, and hell quickly stop. Dont forget to praise him when hes sitting near you without licking you, too!
5. They're asking for food or information
Dogs lick other dogs faces to communicate. Generally, its something a puppy does to an adult dog. To his mother, this might mean feed me, but to other adults in the pack, licking the face can be a submissive behavior asking for approval. Socially, licking an adult dogs face is saying Im just a puppy, you take the lead and tell me how to behave.'
Vets and researchers arent quite sure whether dogs lick humans faces for the same reason. But, if your dog is still young, theres a possibility theyre looking for guidance or for food!
How to stop a dog from excessively licking
Although some dog licking is normal, it can be annoying if your dog licks excessively, whether it's you or your home furnishings. It's important to remember that how you act when your dog is licking can have a tangible impact on their future behavior.
1. Use positive reinforcement
If your dog approaches and licks your hand, it's almost a reflex to stroke their head, but this could easily cause them to associate licking you with getting a fuss. Similarly, if they're licking the sofa and you want them to stop, you might approach them and give them fuss as you lead them away, or even give them a reward like a chew to keep them occupied.
2. Keep them occupied
Frustratingly though, the opposite behavior might also cause your dog to lick since even if you tell them off, you're still acknowledging them and giving them attention. The best way to discourage excessive licking altogether is to ignore the behavior and provide plenty of activities to give your pooch plenty of alternatives to keep them busy.
3. Visit your vet for a check-up
Remember, though, that excessive licking can sometimes indicate a medical problem, like anxiety, for instance. Dementia is common in older dogs, and this can also cause some odd behaviors, like licking. It's also possible that your dog is licking as a form of pica, where a nutrient deficiency causes them to eat or lick inedible things. So, if you can't seem to get your dog's excessive licking under control, it's worth taking them to the vet clinic for a general health check.
These are five possible reasons your dog might be licking you, but getting to the bottom of the problem can be tricky. Whilst licking isnt necessarily harmful, dogs mouths are dirty places and there is a risk they can pass on germs to family members. So, its best to stop your dog from licking people wherever possible.
You might also be questioning, Why do dogs lick their paws?' and 'Why is my dog panting so much?'
Why does my dog lick me so much?
If your dog licks you a lot then youll know what its like to be slobbered on the face, hands and around the mouth, whether youre stroking them, feeding them or being greeted as you step through the door. Being licked by your dog can be a sign of affection, but it can have a number of other meanings too. So why do dogs lick and what can you do if it ever becomes a problem?
Why does my dog lick me so much?
Licking is a natural and instinctive behaviour to dogs. For them its a way of grooming, bonding, and expressing themselves. Your dog may lick you to say they love you, to get your attention, to help soothe themselves if theyre stressed, to show empathy or because you taste good to them! Excessive licking can sometimes be a sign that your dog is anxious, uncomfortable or in pain. If youre concerned about your dog always
speak to a vet or behaviourist for advice.
Dogs have an instinct to lick
Licking is an important part of being a dog. Its how they groom, show emotion and communicate. Mothers will often lick their puppies to keep them clean, give them comfort and encourage them to go to the toilet. Puppies will groom themselves and their family and, aside from being a good way to clean, it's also a sign of love, affection and a great way to bond.
Why do dogs lick?
When you say hello to a dog whats the first thing you do? Chances are you stroke them. Our need to use our hands and touch their fur comes naturally to us and is a form of grooming. Dogs groom with their tongues, and so licking is their way of greeting, bonding and showing affection. We explore the world with our hands, while dogs use their mouths and tongues to help them understand their environment, and to assess the mood of others. Whether thats licking your face to greet you and assess your mood, carrying things between their teeth, or playing with toys or balls.
Theyre showing affection
Dogs often show affection by licking. Its an instinctive behaviour thats linked to the comfort they felt when their mother licked them as a puppy. Licking plays an important part of how they bond with others, causing them to release dopamine and endorphins that help make them feel relaxed, calm and happy. Just as it feels nice for us to stroke a dog, it probably feels nice for dogs to lick the ones they love.
Theyre showing empathy
For dogs, licking is a comforting behaviour. If your dog is concerned about you, they may try and lick you to make you feel better and care for you.In a 2012 study, researchers asked owners to pretend to cry and found that their dogs were more likely to lick and nuzzle them than when their owners were just humming or talking. Its possible that these dogs were just displaying a learnt behaviour, but many of us would argue that dogs can, to some extent at least, share and understand our feelings.
To get attention
Licking is a great way of getting your attention. If your dog licks you, you probably stroke them, talk to them kindly, pet them or make a fuss over them. This, in turn, encourages them to lick you and makes them more likely to do it next time.
We taste good
Have you ever noticed that your dog licks you more after exercise? Particularly on bare areas that have been really sweaty? When we sweat we release salt and acidic chemicals that may taste delicious to our dogs. Your dog may also lick your face and hands, smelling minuscule remnants of something youve eaten or nice smelling moisturising creams or lotions. Certain medications and lotions, such as psoriasis creams, can be very poisonous to dogs, so never let your dog lick you after youve used these.
How good is a dogs sense of taste?
A dogs sense of smell is renowned for being exceptional, but how does their sense of taste compare to ours? Surprisingly, we have 5 times more taste buds than a dog, so at first glance it seems like our sense of taste is better. Like us, dogs can taste things that are sweet, sour, salty and bitter, but theyre unable to taste a type of savoury flavour that we can detect, known as umami. Although dogs are unable to taste umami, they can taste water, something were not capable of. When we eat, our sense of smell is responsible for around 80% of what we taste, so its likely that a dogs sensational sense of smell makes up for their lack of taste buds.
Theyre hungry
In the wild, young dogs may lick their mothers lips when they return from a hunt to show that theyre hungry. This instinct is hardwired into your dogs behaviour and they may lick you to let you know
theyre feeling peckish.
When is licking a problem?
Licking is a way for dogs to express themselves and is a natural part of being a dog. Some dogs may lick lots, while others may do it less, but if your dog suddenly starts licking you a lot then it could be a sign that something is going on. Dogs may lick more frequently if they have increased anxiety or a health issue, such as an allergy, injury or arthritis. If youre concerned about your dog or their behaviour then always
contact your vet or a behaviourist.
Theyre anxious
For dogs, licking can be a soothing behaviour that helps them feel calm, relaxed and more at ease. If theyre feeling worried or stressed, particularly if they have separation anxiety, then licking you, or themselves, might help them feel less anxious.
OCD
Although rare, some dogs can develop a type of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). This can be linked to long-term stress or anxiety and can manifest as them constantly licking themselves, objects or other people. This can lead to sores on their tongues or bald patches in their fur. If you think your dog might be affected then they may be able to stop this behaviour if you interrupt them with an invitation to do something else for example go for a walk, play in the garden or do some training. The behaviour should always be treated with kindness. It may be difficult to stop your dog, so alwaysspeak to your vet or a behaviouristif youre concerned about your dogs health or behaviour.
What can I do about problem licking?
Remember that licking is a perfectly natural behaviour and is a useful way for dogs to express themselves. Expecting your dog to stop licking you completely is similar to someone expecting you to never stroke your dog again its never going to happen. However, not all dogs are the same and some may not lick often if at all. If you have a licker its important that you try to understand why your dog is licking you, as this may help you to help your dog to stop. If your dogs licking becomes too much, then below are some suggestions to help you:
Move away
Instead of giving either positive or negative attention, try moving the part of your body thats being licked away from your dog. Dont say anything or make eye contact, but remain neutral. If this doesnt work, try moving away from your dog, or leave the room entirely. Over time this should give them the message that its not something you enjoy.
Distract them
Try giving them something else to do that stops them licking, such as a chew toy or a food puzzle.
Training
Try training them to sit, or teach them to do something that redirects their licking and is rewarded by your affection and attention, such as giving you their paw or rolling over.
Exercise
Keep your dog stimulated and give them plenty of exercise to help reduce any stress or burn up any excess energy that might be directed towards licking you
Stay clean
If licking is a particular problem after youve been exercising, take a shower.
Positive attention
Give your dog lots of praise and attention when theyre doing what you want them to, rather than giving them negative attention when theyre not.
Be consistent
Make sure youre consistent. If you give your dog mixed messages then it will be confusing to them. Be consistent and clear about what you want them to do and what you dont.
Should I let my dog lick my face?
Whether you should let your dog lick your face or not is an entirely personal decision, but be aware that your dogs mouth is full of natural bacteria and their saliva may contain parasites. The chances of you becoming unwell from being licked on the face are probably very small, but youve seen your dog licking or eating things you wouldnt normally, which begs the question, what are they putting in their mouths that you havent seen? If you do let your dog lick your face, make sure you wash it with soap and water afterwards to minimise any unpleasant contamination.
Why does my dog lick me in the morning?
Your dog may give you morning licks as a way of greeting you after youve both had a sleep. It could be that theyre happy to see you again after dreams of chasing rabbits, or because in the night we secrete sweat and oils in our sleep and may taste delicious to them.
Why does my dog lick me more than anyone else?
If your dog licks you more than anyone else then it probably means that youre the person they love the most. You give the best strokes, the best tickles behind the ear, youre their best friend and the giver of all tasty foods. Alternatively, and rather worryingly, it might be because you taste the best. Either way, take it as a compliment!
Why does my dog lick me when I stroke them?
When you stroke your dog, youre telling them that you love and care for them. When they lick you back its just their way of letting you know that the feeling is mutual.
Why does my dog lick me after Ive eaten?
A dogs sense of smell is said to be between 10,000 and 100,000 times better than ours. Regardless of how tidy an eater you are, particles of food will remain around your lips, face and hands after youve finished a meal. Your dog will probably still be able to pick up on the smell of whatever youve eaten and, to them, it still smells delicious.
Why does my dog lick themselves so much?
If your dog has suddenly started licking themselves a lot then you should
talk to your vetand get them checked out. Obsessive licking can be a sign that they are stressed or anxious, or could suggest that they are in pain, feeling nauseous, uncomfortable or itchy. Licking is soothing to dogs and may help to make them feel better. Dogs can sometimes lick themselves so much that they damage their skin. They may also lick or chew an area that is a little distance from the site of irritation, for example, dogs with anal sac issues may lick at their front legs or on its back because its as close as they can comfortably get.
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